Tuesday, 20 January 2015

2 and a bit.

Here's me thinking I've got nothing new to write about, to share with you (myself).

It's not like Christmas didn't happen, or New Years didn't happen- they did- they flew by in the blink of an eye, and I actually really enjoyed myself. 

In fact Ben and I also celebrated our 4 year anniversary too. With a trip to Winterwonderland- just so I can say we've started a tradition!

I haven't blogged in a while- not that I'm even sure anyone reads this. But I had great ideas about this. I would be blogging on a weekly- fortnightly basis. Posting about where we just visited, and what we just saw- something to read through and remind myself of what we did where.

But, and not sadly, London for us hasn't worked out how I would have thought it would. I thought we would have travelled somewhere be it in the UK or internationally at least once every 8 weeks. 

Truth of it is I hardly leave East London at all. I live in E1, I work in EC4 and I spend all my spare hours between the two.

London has been so fun. We have such good friends who seem more like family. We are out every weekend, eating out, going to pubs, partying at our own place, and at friend’s places. Were always at Bricklane Market on Sundays filling up on the best food. We have a lot of fun.

Christmas was amazing, we went to a pub for a yummy but totally ridiculously priced meal. I drank nothing but Prosecco (and paid for it the next day!) and partied at a friends until the wee hours. Something Christmas at home is never like because it’s all so family heavy (something I love and miss) it was kind of refreshing, and we knew it was the last orphans Christmas we would have.

New Years was the one of the first times I hadn’t had anything planned so far in advance, and looked forward to in months. We booked a table at Pub in the Park in London Fields and drank there, with great friends. There were fireworks at midnight- not that I saw them with all my New Years kissing! Ha.
Then we went to a friend’s place and dances the night away. It’s always the unplanned nights that are the absolute best!

Everything we do now is that last time we ‘have this’ or ‘do this’ in London as home-time is looming. I am doing the unimaginable, leaving London after getting a visa allowing me to stay. I think everyone who wants to stay but can’t would hate me after reading this.

Unfortunately for me, unfortunately for Ben, and unfortunately for our travelling plans the time has come for us to leave. Ben is 30 soon, and I am 27 not long after, and being here is treading water, were not getting any closer to our 5 year goals and it’s something I struggle with daily.

I know if we move home and hate it we have the option to move back and that’s nice. But London is so expensive, and so much like Neverland and I just don’t think I can continue to burn the candles at both ends.

My goal now is to get home, get a career that affords me to come back and see the place we’ve loved so dearly for the last 2 and a bit years. I want us to come back and see the places we missed seeing- and boy is that list long!
I want to be ticking off life goals, and getting the travel goals ticked off as well. God knows London won’t allow both.


We will always have London, we will always be back- that I know it!



Winter Wonderland for our 4 years

3 year tradition!

Girlies on Xmas day

At the Canonbury with the girls

Bit of a family shot

Katie, Ben and I

<3

New Years with Annie

Classic bathroom shot

Me and Shannon




The morning of! 

New Year catch ups with my work girls

Wednesday, 12 November 2014

Halloween

Halloween was so fun this year! 

It was the first time I went as anything scary- if you don't count my skeleton onesie from our first year in London.

Our friend Meike was having a bday/ Halloween party. 

I went to eBay about 3 weeks out, just to be organised and brought a few bits, Lots of blood, a frontal lobotomy for Ben, and a latex next split for me.


We headed to Greg's to get ready as we hardly wanted to catch the tube, or the bus in our get ups! 

I was pretty impressed by the realness of my neck- everyone thought it was gross- success! ha.

About 8 of us all walked down to Meike and Joe's place, the place was decorated so well, and it was just so fun being all dressed up and having a good time. 

Unfortunately I left the keys inside so our early departure of 1am turned into a 3am bedtime after having to taxi around London getting the keys of Nathan.









Wednesday, 22 October 2014

Lon*don

London in general is filled with trips to pubs, birthdays, leaving do's and even our first crayfish party.

I always blog after every trip we go on but I feel like our weekends get a bit missed.

I had a lovely day with Daisy at the Brides Show to get ideas for her wedding, Ben and I went to Jamee's leaving party, and a crayfish party at Elin and Pete's, I went for dinner with my work besties, we had Mike and Nat visit and went to dinner for Rub's bday!

All sorts happens, and while its boring to talk about all the little things.. a collage of good times hits the spot!

And so you see the below..



We have a Halloween party this weekend, and on Friday were going out for a swanky lunch.

The only stress in life is our visa, well my visa, its currently been processing for 3 weeks, out of a possible 6 months. Fingers crossed its back soon, and approved of course so Ben and I can continue our life in the UK!!

x

Tuesday, 14 October 2014

Barcelonaaa!

3 weeks ago, we went to Barcelona.

We being Ben and I, Katie, Jack, and Emma and Dwyane.

We had an airbnb apartment booked, and met at the airport from our assorted flights and headed to the place.

It was an amazing 4 bedroom apartment, the lift was broken and it was 4 flights of stairs up but it was amazing none the less.

We had a bit of a tapas and wine party the first night, I got pretty drunk and apparently made a bit of a dick of myself but, woke up with the hangover or all hangovers as punishment. 

Jack, Katie, Ben and I went out for dinner too, we went to an amazing little restaurant it was family owned and so traditional. We got 2 bottles of wine, and so much food all for 40 euros!

Our friends Mike and Nat were here for a few days too, so we did some sightseeing, lunching, boozing, beaching and warming our bones with the 28 degree heat! 

4 nights and 5 days saw us going to a rather fancy restaurant for the best paella I've ever had (also my first and if it wasn't so yum I wouldn't be scared to try more).
It saw us going back to the cheap restaurant twice! It saw us eat fresh seafood and Ben and I even went to a market and brought a live lobster, scallops, mussels, prawns and calamari and cooked up a feast!

We went to the beach twice, 3 swims in the beautiful Mediterranean water.

It was a busy holiday with 5-6 personalities and so much to see and do it was more like we needed a holiday after the holiday but it was great. 

Catching up with Emma and Dwayne we haven't seen in 2 years, and seeing Jack again was really nice. Makes us realise there is a lot at home for us when we are ready to go back there!

Holidays over for now though, I applied for my EEA2 permit the week we got back, so the Home Office has our passports until the decide if I can stay in the UK with Ben and we can continue our adventure for a bit longer!!

Fingers crossed!
x

Dinner, night 1

Day 2 wandering around the port






Old Marilyn doing her thing

My delicious Paella 

Fresh market

so much fruit!

and lollies!


finally the beach!

spot the boobies

Tapas for Africa

The festival of Barcelona starting up,


Beach day again!


Me Katie and Emma

Seafood dinner at home
Modelling our jelly's



United we stand...


Pretty excited about the festival



bit of a parade- was cool to see!


cute drumming Spanish boy!



Drinks, fireworks and jelly's for our last night.

heart in my beer

Steve Jobs's boat- designed by Apple- and pretty amazing!